I want you to think of this-
Remembered someone to whom you were special? Remembered someone so special to you? How's the current relationship between you and that person? Is your relation unpleasant? Or is your relationship in harmony?
Rules A.
I want you to have a glimpse over the picture below for a few seconds.
That's a perfect quote. Yeah, you don't need the best one by your side, you just need the right ones. Having the best one but of no accessibility while it's so crucial for you is worthless. That's why it's important to surround yourself with the right ones. We often surround ourselves with the best one besides ignoring the right one. That's twisted.
The issue here is we spend more time with the best ones while we value less the right ones. While it's important to keep in mind the right ones are more important.
Simplified Rule A:
1. You don't need the best ones by your side, you just need the few right ones.
Rules B
Now have a glimpse over this picture. This is more important than the previous one.
Want to have a happy and contented life? It's simple. Then stop expecting and start accepting. When you stop expecting then you halted the possibility of getting hurt from your dissatisfied expectations. And when you start accepting anything related to your relationships be it friendship or any other relations, you have opened the entrance to peace.
Simplified Rules B:
1. Stop Expecting.
2. Start Accepting.
Rules C
Attention this is the best of the three rules.
"Don't get too attached to anyone, in the end, everyone will leave and you will get hurt".
What happens when you get attached to anyone? You share the common emotions, common feelings. It's like the tears of your partner will be the tears for you too. The joy, laughter, the sadness of the other person with whom you are attached will be the joy, laughter, and sadness for you too. In simple terms, it's the intimacy, it's the connection, it's the attachment that brings problems by turning your emotions and feelings as mutual and one common feeling for the two.
Simplified Rule C:
1. Don't get too attached to anyone in the end everyone will leave and you will get heart.