I don't know what am going to write. I am just wondering what should I write. I am running out of ideas, tips, etc. Maybe I should write a brief on the topic of living life at best. This is the first time I am writing about life.
Coming to the main deal of this blog, I just want to share a brief and a few critics on a live basis and how it should go on. Maybe someone who is scanning this one might get rejuvenated from their shattered emotions, deceased spirit and will spring out new life.
This is a new month. The 11th month of 2021. Can you thank yourself for the way you have lived in those 11 months? Or are you just gonna regret it? For me, it's all fine. No regret, rather I am trying to be better. It's me versus me. Regret comes when you didn't meet the expectations. And the reason is you haven't accomplished what needs to be done.
Life always has two things to offer. The good and the bad consequences. Life is inadequate without these two. No matter who you are, you don't have the choice to prevent it.
1. You are the artist of your life, don't give your paintbrush to somebody.
These words speak a lot. The reason people are not having a happy life is that their life is painted by another artist. If only their lives were being painted by themselves how happy they could be. Sadly, the maximum number of people's life is painted by the desires and opinions of the family, relatives, and parents.
This is just way too apologetic. Remember you are the captain of your life. So lead your life of your own. Choose the good one. Introspect and know the decent and unpleasant one in your life. Focus on your weakness and strengthen your strength. You have so much to do for society, for the people, for the country, and the institution. Don't be a watcher rather be in an action. Don't be weak. Don't get exhausted. You fall once but you must check out for millions of reasons why you must stand up again.
2. Life is once for all, so value it.
Overall your value of life depends on how you lived. No one's life is worth a billion at starting but it's how you add value day by day. When you hang out with cheap people you become cheap. Don't let cheap things control you. Don't let others' cheap advice affect you and make you cheap.
Now you might wonder what I am asserting by the word 'cheap' and 'Cheap People'. Am I meaning to those people with cheap dresses, cheap suits, etc? Or people with cheap houses? No. The word cheap (here) has got deep meaning. What I meant here is, cheap talks, valueless advice, things that are not going to be helpful for your life and life building, discussion on staff that is useless for adding value to your life.
Cheap people talk about the dress, brands, price, etc. What value will those discussions add to your life? Nothing? It's just a waste of time. You should rather avoid it. Rather discuss something which would add value to your life. Discuss the society, about health, mental fitness, motivation.
You can be defined by the people you hang around with. Your thoughts and mindset are most likely to be affected by the environment you are living in right now. And this environment is nothing but your friend circle. Don't let those cheap talks, cheap discussions, and cheap advice take you into it.
3. If your life is not beautiful for you why don't you make it look beautiful?
If you find your life is ugly, why don't you work for it? Why don't you do something to make it look beautiful? Are you getting the wrong meaning? What do you mean by beautiful life? Is it wearing new brands, jeans shirt or jeans coat? No. It's your inner viewpoint, perspectives, and Impressions. No life is made beautiful by wearing new branded clothes.
A beautiful life is comforting, happy, and cheerful. If you can satisfy your life then believe me your life is beautiful. No life is satisfied by having a pessimistic view. You need to have a positive mindset and optimistic view to build and modify your life to be beautiful. Those are the ingredients you need to add. Having them will change your life and society will automatically start loving you, they will start admiring you, and they will start applauding you. Only then you can call your life is beautiful.
Written by Jwngsat Narzary